Ashy Ego Candle Co.
In Your Own Time
In Your Own Time
SCENT NOTES
Plum, cassis, jasmine, orchid, amber, musk, vanilla, wood.
SCENT STORY
No need to rush. The world can wait. In Your Own Time is a gentle reminder that the most meaningful things unfold slowly - just like healing, blooming, becoming.
Lush plum and cassis open the scent with a soft richness, like twilight settling in. Delicate jasmine and orchid emerge next, silky and slow, inviting you to pause and breathe. As the flame deepens, warm amber, vanilla, and wood linger on the air - grounding, steady, and unhurried - cradled by the subtle pull of musk.
This candle is your permission slip to go at your own pace. To savour the quiet moments. To trust that there’s no timeline for growth, only the rhythm of your own becoming.
DETAILS
- Approx. burn time (with proper candle care and wick trimming): up to 40 hours
- Choose to include a wooden lid for an additional $2
- If you choose not to have a lid, you candle will arrive with a dust cover made of seed paper, which is plantable.
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I received this candle as a gift.
The scent is not overpowering but you can pick out the different notes it’s made with.
Even after it’s been blown out the scent softly fills the room.
Well done.
Absolutely delightful. In a world of mass production, having something handmade, with intention and in glorious scents is pure magic. Thank you.
I absolutely LOVE my In Your Own Time candle from Ashy Ego! Not only is the candle itself so beautifully made, but the scent is incredible — the blend of plum and vanilla is both cozy and uplifting, and it fills the room without being overpowering.
I also adore the thoughtful details, like the cute little matches it came with — such a sweet touch that makes the whole experience feel special. Beyond the candle itself, I love the story and heart behind Ashy Ego. You can really feel the care and intention poured into every product.
Such a perfect piece to add warmth and beauty to my space. <3

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Supporting Mental Health
$1 from every product sold supports mental health. Your purchase helps fund therapy and trauma recovery through organizations like the Breaking Free Foundation.
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Free Shipping Over $100
Orders over $100 ship free anywhere in Canada. Each candle is hand-packed with care from our Calgary studio.
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Clean, Conscious Ingredients
Every candle is made with pure soy wax, clean fragrance oils, and lead-free wicks. Always vegan, cruelty-free, and free of toxins.
product details
All Ashy Ego candles are made with 100% plant-based soy wax, free of any additives or preservatives. Our candles are scented with premium fragrance oils and/or pure essential oils that are non-toxic, paraben and phthalate free, and finished with an eco-friendly, zinc- and lead-free cotton wick. We proudly offer safe and clean burning candles that are of the highest standards in the industry.
Products are packaged and delivered with eco-friendly materials including recyclable packaging and/or biodegradable packing peanuts.
candle care & safety
First burn
On first burn, burn approx. 3-4 hours to reach an almost full wax pool to avoid tunnelling.
Wick Maintenance
- Trim the wick to about 1/4” before each burn to prevent the flame from getting too high.
- For best results, use a long lighter and hold it to the wick for about 5 seconds to properly fuel the flame.
- Remove the dust cover prior to burning, if applicable.
Burning Safety
- Never leave a burning candle unattended
- Extinguish all candles when leaving a room.
- Don’t burn a candle near anything flammable (like clothing, books, or curtains).
- Keep candles out of reach of children and pets.
- Keep candles away from drafts, ceiling fans, and air currents.
General Burning Guidelines
- Always place your candle on a stable, heat-resistant surface.
- Do not burn for more than 4 hours at a time.
- Stop burning when about 1/2 inch of wax remains in the container.